by karen | blog, change, conflict |
I sighed with relief as I settled into my seat on the airplane. Next to me was a bright-eyed young man eager to talk. Both of us had just navigated icy roads, canceled, and then delayed flights. He was on his second day of hassle…I was just on my first day....
by karen | blog, conflict, performance improvement |
I went to a treacherous place…talking politics with people of different perspectives. It went well; I Spiral Impacted it! Repeating these three magic words made it possible: Tell me more. These words opened up a fascinating productive dialogue. Coupled with...
by karen | blog, change, conflict, intention, Spiral Daily |
Updated from 2013 to 2020! Grrgh! The coronavirus has dictated a change in how I practice my beloved art, Aikido, for a while now. While frustrating, it has forced me to reconsider the intent of my practice. My intent is to study relationship, honor, and self. ...
by karen | aikido, blog, conflict, engagement, performance improvement |
When I speak on the subject of conflict resolution, I ask a volunteer to throw me a punch – in 29 years only two people have whole-heartedly felt comfortable doing so. Why is that? The ‘punch’ is a physical metaphor of a verbal engagement; I believe...
by karen | blog, conflict |
Mark Geragos and Pat Harris wrote a book Mistrial that every conscientious citizen should read. It is well written, entertaining, and enlightening. I’ve always admired Mark for his calm clear presence when interviewed by Larry King or Anderson Cooper. My daughter is...