Master Conflict. Be more Free.

[vimeo]https://vimeo.com/262060254[/vimeo] Transcript: I find it so fascinating to explore the topic of conflict with people. It so interesting how everyone experiences it so differently.  I have people who: • Love conflict • Hate conflict and will do just about...
Ahh – Yes!  Rethinking Confrontation

Ahh – Yes! Rethinking Confrontation

An exasperated client texted me, “I am going to have to confront a key employee.” Knowing the two of them, I recognized this had the potential to end badly; I also knew they both have the skills to move through this with great ideas and understanding. I believe there...

Spiral Daily

How is conflict like water? [vimeo]https://vimeo.com/118630517[/vimeo] They both are creative. If you try to contain them – pressure builds. If you ignore small indications of a problem in the early stages you set yourself up for big issues. If there is...
Mandela, MLK, and Aikido

Mandela, MLK, and Aikido

It is the path that intrigues me. Three men known by “M” names – Martin Luther King, Jr., Mandela and Morihei – shared a parallel path. The lesser-known Morihei Ueshiba, is the founder of the martial art Aikido in which Spiral Impact is...
Ahhh…Yes! The toughest of walls

Ahhh…Yes! The toughest of walls

Walls are made of many things: bricks, cement, wood, stones.  Yet the toughest of all walls is an invisible wall.  Composed of many things: Assumptions Righteousness about position or opinion No acknowledgement Balls dropped – promises broke Looks Misread...