What if, you choose to be fascinated rather than outraged? 

When another’s viewpoint or actions are so contrary to ours it is easy to be appalled.

Fascination positions us to seek understanding, from there our ability to influence increases.

If you get into the habit of thinking,
“Wow, that is fascinating, tell me more about how you see this?”
You might open some doors for productive conversation or even learn the background of a different perspective.

It will also likely open dialogue for more mutual hearing.


Develop Power with Grace. 
Asking thoughtful questions is one aspect.
The best questions foster understanding, spark innovation, diffuse negative conflict, and build influence –
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