If you feel disappointed, confused, or ‘done wrong’ by someone else’s behavior,
do you REALLY know what is going on?
Or are you assuming?
I am humbled today, as I view myself as a pretty good communicator.
Yet, I found myself on the outs with someone based on my perceived judgment of his lack of follow-through.
Today, when we actually talked about what was going on, we both had made the same assumption about each other.
So grateful that I took the time out to ask questions for more understanding.
There was no ill intent on either part, just incorrect assumptions.
Reminds me of the old adage, when you assume you can make an ass out of u and me.
Are you making assumptions that haven’t been verified?
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