When does pushing create more resistance?

Almost always unless it is something with wheels.
Pushing people often creates resistance, unless you have an agreement to push.

What are you pushing against?
Is it getting you what you want?

Spiral to minimize resistance and move more easily toward what you want!
Do you remember the five keys to Spiral Impact?

Develop Power with Grace. 
Asking thoughtful questions is one aspect.
The best questions foster understanding, spark innovation, diffuse negative conflict, and build influence –
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