What if complaining magnified the issue of focus?

From http://www.btcomplaint.com

From http://www.btcomplaint.com

Yikes! It does.

You get more of what you don’t want!  Complaining magnifies the issue.
Shift your focus to what you want.

This is why I focus teams to create credos expressing their ideal way of interacting.
You get more of what you focus on!
Getting together to complain about things makes it worse!

Be careful!

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